Cry It Out Recovery

Pedophilia

what I’ve personally experienced has led to the development of my theory.

As a child who was damaged by CIO, I too have experienced the infantile shift in consciousness, and as
a child was looking for anything that made me feel better. This included people.

The first true friend that I remember was a little blonde-haired girl from England named Julia. She was
the first person who I truly felt safe with, and she accepted me unconditionally as a friend.

Unknown to me at the time, I actually became obsessed with her on some level due to the damage that I’
d gone through as an infant and toddler. What this caused me to create is what’s called an archetype. An
archetype is an inherited pattern of thought or symbolic imagery derived from the past collective
experience and present in the individual unconscious.

The archetype that I created due to my closeness with Julia is why to this day I’m attracted to tall blondes,
so my archetype is “Tall Blonde Haired Women.” What’s important to note is that although I created an
archetype based on Julia, who was a little girl at the time, my attraction to women who fit this archetype
from an age standpoint grew as I grew, and today I’m attracted to adult women who fit that archetype.

With pedophiles, my theory is that many of them have been damaged from CIO (as I was) and also
formed their own archetypes (as I did) for the same reason. The difference with pedophiles is that their
archetypes include an “age” factor.

It’s quite possible that the young child who grows up to be a pedophile became so obsessed with their
friend, friends or siblings that they translated the actual personal characteristics of the object of their
obsession including their age into their archetype.

Since age has been factored into their archetype as they grow and mature in age their attraction to people
their own age does “not” grow with them. Their obsession has caused their development to become
“stuck” in place so when they do reach adulthood, their attraction is to children who fit their archetype or
children in general.

Pedophiles, like any other person who’s been damaged by CIO, need to recover from the damage that
was done. They need to learn the tools that will allow them to manage their beliefs and discreate (release
or delete) the archetype that causes them to be attracted to children. Just like anyone else, this requires
first realizing that change is an option and then taking action in order to make that change.